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‘Rich Muslims’ expense on Umrah, marriage can teach 3 lakh poor Muslim kids for 18 yrs’

With 120 million Indian Muslims living on Rs 67 a day, scholars want rich community members to spend less on lavish weddings, multiple pilgrimages.

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A Faizur Rahman, an Urdu-speaking native of Chennai, is an executive committee member of Harmony India, an organisation to promote secularism and communal harmony which is headed by N. Ram, the Editor-in-Chief of The Hindu. He is also the founding secretary of Forum for the Promotion of Moderate Thought in Islam.

Sharing his experiences with this writer, Rahman says, he has lost count of the number of public forums (and private discussions) he has used in the last two decades to speak out against baseless ritualism and extravagance (israaf) in Islam.

Dr M. Aslam Parvaiz, author and scholar, is the Vice Chancellor of the Maulana Azad National Urdu University, Hyderabad. Both Rahman and Parvaiz have been traveling all-round the country, interacting with Muslim community leaders with a plea to cut down spending on lavish marriages and Umrah.

Umrah is a “minor pilgrimage” undertaken by Muslims whenever they enter the holy city of Makkah. In Islam, it is optional for Muslims to perform Umrah. Its similarity to the major and obligatory Islamic pilrimage “Haj” has made some fusion of the two natural, though pilgrims have the choice of performing the Umrah separately or in combination with the haj.

These scholars are self-confessed practising Muslims and not against Umrah per se. They say they only wish to create awareness among Muslims that Umrah not being an obligatory ritual in Islam one need not perform it every year. Instead that money may be used for the socio-economic development of our community at a time when it desperately needs it.

As per the National Commission for Enterprises in Unorganised Sector (NCEUS) report of 2007, 84% of the Muslim population of India lives on a daily income of less than Rs 20. Now, 12 twelve years later, this figure may have gone above Rs 20.

According to the Socio Economic Caste Census 2011, there are 24.39 crore households in India, and 17.91 crore of them are in rural areas where the main earning member makes less than Rs 5,000 a month. Only 8% of the rural households have a member earning more than Rs 10,000 a month.

Put differently, if a household has four members the amount available for each member (at an average of Rs 8,000 per month) is just about Rs 67!

For the Muslims in India, this would mean that more than 120 million of them are forced to live on less than Rs 70 a day! Therefore, is it not the duty of wealthy Muslims to remedy this situation? they ask.

Rahman says he has received a mixed response from  national level organizations such as the All India Muslim Personal Law Board (AIMPLB) who have maintained a stoic silence on these issues. However, some Muslim organizations and moulvis (priests) in Chennai, have expressed outrage against Rahman’s liberal and philanthropic interpretation of Islam. “In their blinkered view, asking Muslims to stop spending money on non-obligatory pilgrimages amounts to a blasphemous denial of Islamic practices,” Rahman said.

Rahman says he has also received quiet support from a few madrasa-based religious scholars. One such ‘maulana’ went on to write an article in an Urdu magazine against wasting money on umrahs and multiple Haj. Maulana Hafizur Rahman Azami Omeri wrote a piece in Two Circles, a prominent web portal addressing Muslim community issues. Omeri argues that as per Hadees (sayings of Prophet) in Bukhari when Hazrat Bibi Aisha (Prophet’s wife) asked as to which among two neighbours deserves our benefaction when resources are limited, the Prophet answered: “The one whose door is nearest to you.”

Omeri insists that in Islam Huqooqul ibaad (humanitarianism) has been given precedence over Huqooqullah (duties towards God). He quotes an “eye-opening” statement from Imam Ghazali on multiple Haj wherein the Imam laments, “These rich people are very fond of spending their money on the Hajj. They perform the Hajj again and again sometimes even at the cost of their neighbours suffering in hunger. Abdullah ibn Mas’ud was absolutely right when he said: ‘During the last days of the world there will be a surfeit of people performing the Hajj unnecessarily. The journey will appear easy to them and there will be no shortage of funds. But they will return from the Hajj poorer without any real benefit. They will be travelling over deserts and open ground while their neighbour will be suffering deprivation. Neither will they empathise with him nor will they display civility.”

As per records, 4,48,268 Muslims applied for Haj in 2017. Rahman takes this as a sign of 4,50,000 Muslims having the capacity to spend around Rs 2,50,000 every year on pilgrimage. This works out to more than Rs 10,000 crore. “If we add to this amount the money Muslims annually spend on non-obligatory Umrah, we get the figure of almost Rs 15,000 crores! Even if a small portion of this amount is to be diverted for humanitarian causes, it will come under the definition of effective altruism which, by the way, is not out of sync with the egalitarian teachings of Islam,” insists Rahman.

He argues that if any Muslim is asked for his reasons for performing Umrah, the reply will invariably be, ‘for sawaab’ (divine reward). But more ‘sawaab’ can be gathered right here in India by helping a needy person at half the price of an Umrah, pleads Rahman.

As per a conservative estimate, over 250,000 Muslims travel to Makkah and Madina for Umrah every year. And the average cost of the entire trip is around Rs 1,40,000-2,00,000. Therefore, the annual amount spent by Indian Muslims on Umrah alone works out to a whopping Rs 4,100 crores! In comparison, the amount allocated in the 2017-18 budget by the Government of India to the Ministry of Minority Affairs was Rs 4,535 crore.

Muslims spend a lot of money on marriages every year. In fact, a lot more than what they spend on the annual Umrah. Just look at statistics given below.

Minimum guests from the Bride’s side — 300
Minimum guests from the Groom’s side — 300
Minimum cost of the Nikah feast for 600 guests @ Rs 200 per guest — Rs 1.5 lakh
Minimum cost of the Valima feast for 600 guests at the same rate — Rs 1.5 lakh
Average money spent on jewellery by bride’s side — Rs 2 lakh
Average money spent on jewellery by groom’s side — Rs 1 lakh
Cost of renting the function hall for Nikah — Rs 1 lakh
Cost of renting the function hall for Valima — Rs 1 lakh
Misc. expenditure on decoration etc — Rs 50,000

Total average expenditure of one wedding comes to Rs 8 lakh.

In a total Muslim population of about 180 millions, assuming that at least 150,000 (less than 0.001 per cent of 180 million) middle class weddings take place in a year in India, the total money spent by the Muslim community per year on weddings is: 150,000 weddings multiplied by Rs 6.4 lakh which equals Rs 12,000 crores. Add to this, the Rs 4,100 crore spent on Umrahs and another Rs 1,000 crore on multiple Haj. In other words, Muslims in India spend a minimum of Rs 17,100 crore per year on extravagant weddings, non-obligatory pilgrimages.

Let us now see how much it costs to educate a child.

At an average annual fees of Rs 10,000, the cost of educating a child from LKG to 12th standard is 14 years x 10,000 = Rs 1,40,000. For 4 years of technical education @ Rs 1,00,000 per year = Rs 4,00,000. Total cost is Rs 5,40,000.

Dividing 17,000 crore by 540,000 we get 3,14,814. This means, more than three lakh poor Muslim children can be educated for 18 years on the money spent in just one year by the rich Muslims on non-obligatory pilgrimages.

Dr Parvaiz, an accomplished scientist who has been editing and publishing a monthly journal in Urdu, Science, for the last over 25 years, has been relentlessly speaking at various forums requesting the Muslims to concentrate on Huqooqul ibaad for the moment as the condition of Muslim community is very bad. Allah is not in need of our Umrahs or multiple Hajs. But our Ummah (community) is in desperate need of humanitarian help, Dr Parvaiz argues. He quotes that one who does not take care of orphans and does not arrange and motivates others also to feed displaced people has belied his Deen Islam (Qur’an 107:2-3). Any contribution towards this would be worth several hundred times the sawaab of an Umrah or a second Haj. In this context, Dr Parvaiz draws attention of Muslims towards a hadith in Bukhari in which the Prophet said; “One who strives for the widows and the poor is like the one who strives in the way of Allah. I shall regard him as one who stands up for prayer without rest and as one who fasts without break.”

For ages Muslims have been shielded from new ideas in the name of taqleed (sectarian conformism), and ijtihad (liberal interpretation of Islam) is discouraged,” argues Rahman adding, “In my view, Muslims will be certainly open to religious liberalism if they are not burdened with the fear of a clerical backlash. It is not that Muslims do not realise the need for pulling their community out of poverty and illiteracy. They do, and also have the money to embark on such a mission.”

Going by this school of thought, it is not because of lack of viable models of philanthropy among Muslims that money is not reaching the genuinely deprived. Rahman states: “It is the lack of a philanthropic mind-set which is the cause. If anything can change this mind-set it is the widespread dissemination of a counter-narrative that can challenge and neutralise the anachronistic sermons emanating from most Muslim pulpits.”

Rasheed Kidwai is an ORF visiting fellow, author and journalist. The views expressed here are his own.

This article was originally published in Observer Research Foundation.

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  1. I agree with the author’s views and this is exactly what the majority Hindus criticise about. In addition, the author does not mention the fact that the rules regarding Haj pilgrimage as per the Prophet is that it should be carried out with one’s own honest life earnings. When such a rule is so clear, then why do Muslims in India demand the government to pay for Haj from tax money collected from non-Muslims. Isn’t this sort of an indirect Jizya?
    Due to the appeasement by Congress in 70 years, it has now crossed boundaries and now, state governments have taken up subsidies not just for Haj but also for Christian privileges.
    As a result, it will not be long before resentment develops among the majority against the minorities.
    The Jains, Buddhists as well as Parsis communities are even smaller than Muslim or Christian communities but we do not see them demanding subsidies for their individual faith pilgrimages, do we?
    This hypocrisy is what angers the majority. The laws are not fair and not in accordance with the Constitution of India.

  2. I totally agree with your point. This is an eye opener to our community. I appeal to our community members to think for the coming generations of children.

  3. Assalamoalaikum and after compliments
    Very nice article .It is an extremely difficult task to penetrate the minds of people to distract them from extravagance.For rich it is a status symbol.There are 2 symbols of status at Aligarh at present.
    My sister/daughters marriage in S hall where i pat 10 lacs fpr marriage hall .The people will know that if I can spend 10 for hall,the jahez will be not less than 3 crores.I will invite 5000 people will make 50 dishes.Next day society will discuss my daughter’s lavish marriage
    The 2nd status symbol at Aligarh is”Oh my father has a stroke,he is admitted in ICU.means that I can spend 20000/day to treat my father.
    Other than JNMC,most of ICU’s are manned by absolutely untrained staff ,the best is consisting of Unani /ayurvedic graduates.otherwise Aayas man the ICUs
    These evils of extravagance is in all the classes ,not only rich.The poor also spend in marriages,go beyond their means by taking loans
    The CLERICS are the best connecting links between the different classes of Muslims.
    Our society needs SOCIETAL CHANGE
    Please read my article;
    Dear Friends assalamoalaikum and after compliments
    Our ailing Muslim society has so many factors and causes. There is no panacea and there can’t be a single formula to treat the ailment. There are different parameters needed for different categories and societies.
    Education with training TALEEM AND TARBIYAT is the program and in the light of QURAN and Islamic teachings.
    The Quran and Islam had become COMPLETE before the Wisal, the passing away of the Rasoole Pak SWAS.
    But it is impossible to convince all, because no one will agree. Clerics feel that their role will end and will end importance and influence in society.
    I have written on the societal change
    I have repeatedly posted it with insignificant attention from people since it has no immediate political
    mileage, therefore it remains unheeded.
    I am posting again below
    Please comment if I am wrong I will withdraw it
    If right we should work upon it
    We the educated and privileged members of society have responsibility
    SOCIETAL CHANGE __________________________________
    Dr Mohsin Raza____________________________

    My dear Friends salamoalaikum
    We will keep suffering until we can be able
    to walk with raised head in the society.
    We need a societal change to reach it;
    We should spend all energies in developing the community in all sectors.
    When we are in a state of walking with raised head, we will be respected and will have a value in society.
    We collectively abuse the Jews but if you see that in 1945, tabloids were slung on the doors of rental properties in USA denying” Jews to rent a house.
    They didn’t react, united they progressed. The best brains from all over the world were imported to Israel given respect, facility of education & research. They made Israel as 6th best Army with a Nuclear state in 25
    years. The Jews are dominating at the US policies and economy. You cant deny genocide. Israel has become a challenge to the entire world. USA has to bow to their demands.
    I have written about it time and again, since it has no immediate political mileage, it remains unheeded.
    The entire community is like a virtual graveyard. You give call for prayers in a qabrustan, no dead will rise to join you at prayers.
    But we shouldn’t be disappointed. We must keep calling ADHAN, No wonder a day may come, Allah infuses life and spirit in virtual dead bodies, and they will rise from their graves to join.
    EDUCATE EDUCATE EDUCATE is the only solution
    Educational & financial upliftment will bring social upliftment….will strengthen our community. If community is strong, we will be in a position of importance. Out of 250 million Muslims in India, we have 40-50 million drop outs. They have no vision, docile useless members and a burden on the society. Many turn vagabond.
    The strong societal structure of Muslims in North & eastern India has Disintegrated due to the impact of Partition over 6 decades ago.
    We need a societal change, the 3 sections of our society viz
    1. Modern educated
    2. Religious educated, clerics and Madarsa teachers/students
    3. Illiterate masses who are in majority …No RAPPORT exists between them.
    The 1st most important step is to convince the educated section about the need of a societal change.
    Then: They have to create a rapport.
    A new society has to be re built. The 3 sections have no rapport among them; rather they are repulsed by the other.
    We need a societal change
    “The societal change needs to bring the 3 major community divisions on one platform
    We who belong to group 1, the educated and privileged class have greater responsibility on our shoulders to reach out to the group 2 & 3.
    We have not only failed in doing so. We have in fact never attempted to reach out to them, resulting in creation of large distance between us, more often, even repulsion.
    We have to shun reaction. We have to be positive with multipronged approach to uplift the social educational and economic upliftment of community.
    It is not easy task but not impossible
    Tears pity and looking back in past glory is not required. WE have to look ahead, move forward or we all perish hamara naam leney wala koyee na hoga (there will remain no one to know our names).
    Reachout to poor folk uneducated and illiterate masses.
    Sir Syed was not a Politician he was statesman he wanted Muslim have respect in society…That comes through education
    Please make it a movement. I request every one to become part of this movement where ever you are.

    Dr Mohsin Raza cell 8126039175
    enior Consultant General Surgeon
    Moderator -“Worldofaligs”
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  4. Yes I m fully agreed with your thoughts & plan . I want to contribute also for ummah (community). But how?

  5. The author has some excellent points,
    Well as some have commented the rich can afford to spend may be between 10 to 50 lacs on a marriage, but THE BIG PROBLEM is even lower middle class people want to do more or less what the rich do,

    In Chennai city where i have lived a person whose monthly income is Rs 30,000(or about) got an alliance to his daughter and the bridegroom side said the Brides side should meet 75% of the expenses and so the brides father got to find about 4 to 6 lacs Rupees , but he hardly had the savings amounting to Rs one lac

    What would he do to get his daughter married and try hard to keep up with the tradition of marriage halls, feeding about minimum 300 guests , minimum 80 grammes of gold jewels etc he got to go around borrow, beg relatives and friends. This is the point that the author is trying to point out Our priorities are wrong, instead of doing Umrah and boasting that “I have done 10 Umrahs” they can help poor brides get decently married in Masjids spending less on luxuries

    What would he do The rich do not come forward and pay their Zakah ot the deserving people.

  6. Why not counting spendings on vehicles, lavish cloths, luxury homes and costly restaurants. And people going for outings/vacations, purchasing costly toys for children, LED TV your Apple mobile……etc.. etc.

    If someone performing Umrah, it’s his will.

  7. As much as I understand the intention behind this posivitely, there are certain ground realities that need to be accepted & dealt with.

    Doing Haj is not financially viable for every Muslim thanks to the expensive packages offered by the agents/companies.
    So they opt for next best solution; go for Umrah.

    As a Muslim, the writer should be knowing the rewards of Umrah.

    The problem is the cost of the Umrah packages. The agents/companies that offer such packages are looting the Muslims. The day they bring the down the cost of these packages, Muslims will be able to use that to give it to deserving poor people.

  8. I totally agree with the author.this could be the positive approach towards our community.lot more awareness is needed to make our community understand and realise the need.we need to open up the universities,schools on modern lines so that our children are capable of competing globally

  9. Very well written and muslim community in India has to wake up before it is too late.
    My suggestion is that we must think about utilising the money that we spend on sacrifices on Eid-ul-Adha. In my opinion we don’t need to sacrifice animals to please Allah. We can use that money for the welfare of the community. Could you calculate that too?

    • The article was focusing on the extravagance on non-obligatory acts of worship. Sacrifice on Id-ul-adha is obligatory on those who can afford it. However, there isis extravagance there also. You don’t have to buy very very costly animals. You can manage bigger animal which is equivalent to seven small animals. For instance a buffalo (in India, we can forget the cow) or a camel can be sacrificed by seven people together to fulfill the obligation and not necessarily a sheep or goat individually.

  10. What kind of sick logic is that. How does rich Muslim or for that matter any rich person not spending on his/her lavish lifestyle helps poor. Unless you are implying that they should donate all to charity, but then again if someone does donate to charity, why does it matter if s/he decided to spend on their lifestyle. Unless off course you are implying that Muslims should give up private property itself and rather should work as community. Now idea of abolition of private property in itself is not new. Ever heard of Communism. So Let’s say you want Muslim-communism within India. For the sake of argument let’s say everyone agreed. Care to give any direction how would that work in an already established nation?

    The truth is you never thought it through . You didn’t need to. You are so sold to the idea of “bad Muslim” that you feel the need to demonize the whole community before you earn enough validation in your mind to support them in any form. Or the fact that you think of yourself as a overbearing patron of Muslim community which gives you natural right to demonize them. Your false sense of moral superiority of being centrist is just a façade to your cowardice.

    P.S.- A candidate with Muslim name applying for job is 2 times less likely to receive a call-back than a Dalit candidate, and 3 times less likely than an upper caste candidate (Qualification and experience being same).

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  11. It’s indeed an eye opening article. Will our muslim umma realize and come foward to give up such extravagance but spend for the welfare of poor in the cause of Allah? May Allah’s blessings be upon the scholars who continue to create such awareness amongst our brothers and sisters.

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