“I found that these women often give consent to these marriages to escape poverty and the burden of dowry. ”
“The men that purchase brides for marriage do not face social stigma to the same extent, even when brides often belong to a different caste or religion.”
(a must for making just and equitable society/ to break the taboos created by the Abrahamanic invasion of 800 years, the Islamist & victorian era morality)
Please read these two inferences you had drawn from your scholarship. The woman served you cola and whatever her means by treating you guest, and you sold your soul by calling it woman trafficking, everyone is not born with silver spoon, but they know how to make better of their circumstances.
Isomorphic application of western method of a emotionless and sentiment devoid society into Indic social where man-woman sail through whole life in such marriages to make best out of their circumstances, is big tragedy of this article. Though nothing against that society, some literate thinks everyone is living happily there, which is far from the truth.
I must say you have learnt nothing from this scholarship except how to vulture on the poverty, lack of literacy and belief of these human (you only did Fustian Bargain and so the international busy bodies). Every situation has positivity, Mahira has better social and economic opportunity at current place than her parents home, she knows this and that is the reason she does not wish to return. (All you may know she could have landed into Sonagachi and that would have been worst)
It is the family who is selling these bride should be shamed and not the other way around, all you may know that these woman will face greater pain and ignominy.
If a educated woman of your age marry a multi-millionaire of 75 years age, you will not dare to write such judgemental article, and you know why? Ask yourself who gave you the right to judge their life in the manner you have projected especially when counter-views are given by Mahira herself.
There’s a lot of trafficking of women from Nepal to Maharashtra as well. Also In Bengal where a lot of women from Scheduled caste backgrounds are sold off to Bangladesh as well. It’s a sorry state of affairs across all northern states.
This is extremely depressing. While we in urban areas get to think about women CEOs and women in other big roles, so many young girls are being trafficked. Their dreams, childhood, aspirations all robbed. Wonder when will we get to escape these ideas and manifestations of patriarchy.
“I found that these women often give consent to these marriages to escape poverty and the burden of dowry. ”
“The men that purchase brides for marriage do not face social stigma to the same extent, even when brides often belong to a different caste or religion.”
(a must for making just and equitable society/ to break the taboos created by the Abrahamanic invasion of 800 years, the Islamist & victorian era morality)
Please read these two inferences you had drawn from your scholarship. The woman served you cola and whatever her means by treating you guest, and you sold your soul by calling it woman trafficking, everyone is not born with silver spoon, but they know how to make better of their circumstances.
Isomorphic application of western method of a emotionless and sentiment devoid society into Indic social where man-woman sail through whole life in such marriages to make best out of their circumstances, is big tragedy of this article. Though nothing against that society, some literate thinks everyone is living happily there, which is far from the truth.
I must say you have learnt nothing from this scholarship except how to vulture on the poverty, lack of literacy and belief of these human (you only did Fustian Bargain and so the international busy bodies). Every situation has positivity, Mahira has better social and economic opportunity at current place than her parents home, she knows this and that is the reason she does not wish to return. (All you may know she could have landed into Sonagachi and that would have been worst)
It is the family who is selling these bride should be shamed and not the other way around, all you may know that these woman will face greater pain and ignominy.
If a educated woman of your age marry a multi-millionaire of 75 years age, you will not dare to write such judgemental article, and you know why? Ask yourself who gave you the right to judge their life in the manner you have projected especially when counter-views are given by Mahira herself.
There’s a lot of trafficking of women from Nepal to Maharashtra as well. Also In Bengal where a lot of women from Scheduled caste backgrounds are sold off to Bangladesh as well. It’s a sorry state of affairs across all northern states.
This is extremely depressing. While we in urban areas get to think about women CEOs and women in other big roles, so many young girls are being trafficked. Their dreams, childhood, aspirations all robbed. Wonder when will we get to escape these ideas and manifestations of patriarchy.